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Claire Varrieur's avatar

"So this home I picture is all mine. Every book, every chair, every speck of dust." OMG this is so exactly what I needed to read right now. I'm at a slightly different point, more like a crisis point, because I'm struggling with maintaining that feeling of "me" in my nest as I consider merging treasures and personal space with another who does NOT share my sense of esthetic. Haven't spent a lifetime building a nest, then divorcing in my 50s and losing that nest, then finding a small cosy new nest and making it my own, I'm feeling ungrounded and a little lost when I should be feeling incredibly happy because I've finally found "my person." I don't know the answer, but your post somehow gave me comfort. So thank you!

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Sheena - Paper Altars's avatar

“a complicated ache”… thank you for this wording, dear Susannah. I feel that complicated ache too ❤️

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